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Relaxed Homeschooling Reading and Writing in Early Elementary

January 13, 2014 by Sallie Borrink
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I almost feel like it is dishonest to say how I teach language arts because I sometimes feel like I haven’t. I have facilitated a lot of learning. If there is any area where I feel like I’ve really embraced relaxed homeschooling and can see how well it can work, it is relaxed homeschooling language arts.

I should also say by way of background that I spent a lot of time the first few years working on relationship building with Caroline. Due to health issues I had, our relationship had been through a lot of disruption between the ages of two and a half and four and a half. So more important to me than any learning was making sure our relationship was strong.

So here is how we’ve embraced relaxed homeschooling in the area of language arts since, really, almost the beginning of parenthood.

Reading to Our Baby

We started “teaching” Caroline when she was about six months old. That’s when she would sit in our laps and look at baby books with us. I consider that the start of her language arts education.

We also talked with her all the time. We used adult voices, adult sentence construction, and a rich vocabulary. We talked about the books we were sharing together. We talked about what we saw when we were in the car. We talked about everything.

We didn’t let her watch TV until she was almost two. (And there was no smart phone or Kindle at that time.) So from six months to twenty-three months, we read multiple books to her a couple of times a day and we had lots of conversations with her. She always had access to a huge basket full of books. We utilized books for conversation. We gave her a lot of unstructured play time.

Now let me add a big disclaimer. I am NOT advocating for formally homeschooling babies and toddlers. I’m simply pointing out that I really think what we did starting when she was six months old was valuable and important. I believe it has paid off in many ways. I am definitely NOT suggesting that moms of infants start developing formal homeschooling plans.

Ages Two to Four Years

From two years to four years we pretty much did the same thing. Lots and lots of books, lots of conversation, lots of play, and some selected DVDs. We primarily used the Baby Einstein DVDs and we used them as a discussion tool. She LOVED them. We tied them in with books in the house, drives that we took, places we visited, etc.

When she was about two and a half, we even used sticker books as learning tools which worked wonderfully well! I wrote extensively about what we did (and didn’t do) when she had just turned three in How I currently “teach” Caroline.

Relaxed Homeschooling Preschool

At four years of age, we did a bit of a trial homeschool preschool. Even though I had always intended to homeschool, I felt a bit angsty about her being an only child and wondered if she would be happier with other kids.

(To be honest, I also wondered if I would be happier if she was with other kids because I am very introverted.)

It was when we did the trial preschool that I started to realize she was a different kind of learner. She was not interested in doing the same things over and over again. She thrived with variety. Not just preferred it, but required it.

I had purchased a Letter of the Week Curriculum from another homeschooler and she was completely bored with it by about the third or fourth day. Once she had done an activity once or twice, there was no way she was going to do it again for another fifteen or twenty letters. I wrote extensively about our trial preschool in Reflections on Our Practice Homeschool Preschool.

Relaxed Homeschooling Kindergarten

At five years of age, we did kindergarten. By this time, Caroline had pretty much taught herself to read after playing on websites like Starfall.com, ABCMouse.com, etc. She started out using Starfall, but we eventually also subscribed to ABCMouse (which I wrote about here) and wish I had done it sooner since it had so much great stuff!

I sometimes sat down with her while she was working on a concept that I knew she didn’t know, but the repetition and exploring on her own just did it for her. I wrote about Teaching Our Spirited, Active Child to Read when she was six.

However, I would say much of preschool and kindergarten was simply play. I had lots of plans for kindergarten and we even tried to keep a regular schedule, but ended up really having to switch things up part way through the year.

Her sight word vocabulary astounds me. I think the reason she knows so many words by sight is she usually turns on the closed captioning while watching videos. So she’s reading along with the video. I never encouraged her to do this. She just did it and it has been a great thing for her.

First Grade and Second Grade Relaxed Homeschooling

Which brings us to first grade (last year) and second grade (this year).

I guess no one will be surprised when I tell you we still do basically the same things. After a few years of trial and error, I’ve learned what works with her and I just go with it.

We read a lot to her, we have her read to us, we talk a lot, she uses computer programs, she does stuff on the Kindle Fire HD, and we do some worksheets that I pull from different workbooks I’ve picked up. We play games that relate to reading whether they are games I’ve purchased or my own products that I create.

Like many right-brained children, she is not a fan of writing. This is one area where I am especially letting her lead me. My intuition tells me that to push it is completely counter-productive. And so she still dictates her journal to me and then illustrates it. I plan work that takes minimal writing. Eventually it will click with her. In the meantime, I make sure it doesn’t prevent us from moving ahead in other areas. I just plan things that don’t require a lot of writing. (Later update: Caroline went to OT for dysgraphia.)

Relaxed Homeschooling Language Arts

Making these changes to a relaxed approach to language arts (and learning in general) was a huge change for me as a former first grade teacher. But I can see that this is what Caroline needs and that is the whole point in homeschooling her! We homeschool her to give her what she needs, how she needs it, and when she needs it.

We focus on keeping strong relationships and carefully observing her so we can provide the learning opportunities she needs in all areas, including Language Arts.

So far we can see that this has been a good thing.

This is part of my Relaxed Homeschooling in the Early Elementary Years series.
Read the Introduction to the series here.

How I Teach Language Arts – Relaxed Homeschooling in the Early Elementary Years Series


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  1. Elizabeth Salmeron

    August 7, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    Dear Sallie,

    I am a homeschooling mom of a newly 10-year-old daughter (also an only child). We have been homeschooling for several years and see how well homeschooling “fits” the uniqueness of her temperament and learning needs. This is the first time I have read your website and I find so much of your words, philosophies and experiences match ours! Thank you! Having said that, I’m interested in following your homeschool journey and using some of your approaches to homeschooling. I would appreciate some guidance as to how to use your website and gain access to the learning resources you include. Thank you again! Elizabeth

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    • Sallie

      August 20, 2015 at 1:12 pm

      Hi Elizabeth and welcome!

      The best way to keep up is subscribe to my newsletter. You can do that in the header. Make sure you confirm the subscription when the note comes in the email. I send out a newsletter most every week. Or you can pop by and see if anything new is up. I also have a Facebook page, but my website is my true home online.

      I also send out special printables and discounts for my shop to my subscribers from time to time. That is also a part of subscribing to the newsletter.

      Feel free to jump in on the comments! I love to hear what works for other families as well. You might have the idea or answer someone else needs. 🙂

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  2. Esther

    March 12, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    Sallie I feel like I’m living your life. I am so grateful I found your blog! This is basically what I’ve done with my girl this year. One difference is that she enjoys writing – but on her own terms. She will watch a TV show about dangerous animals and take notes the entire time. So to me, that counts as school. She also reads voraciously without prompting. I feel like I don’t have to push her b/c she’s already doing it on her own. I’m curious if you do any kind of spelling tests or quizzes at all? My girl’s great at decoding and reading words, but she often misspells words or asks for help. But again, she’s only 7, so I haven’t been stressing about this. Thoughts?

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    • Sallie

      March 15, 2016 at 8:09 pm

      Hi Esther!

      That’s funny that our lives are so similar in some respects. I definitely think taking notes while watching a video counts as learning. That’s a great skill for her to have already!

      I don’t do any spelling tests with Caroline. I actually just put up a post today about My Child Hates Phonics. I explain in that how we’ve approached this topic.

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