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All The Random Things Right Now

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December 4, 2019 by Sallie Borrink
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It is actually quiet in my home at this moment. I know it would seem that with only three of us living here that it must be quiet all the time, but this morning and early afternoon was just loud. I think it is because Caroline has been sick with a nose and throat thing since Friday evening. She’s hardly been able to talk and today she can. So she’s got about four days worth of words to get out. LOL!

At the moment, however, David and Caroline are gone so I can think. Here are all the random things I’ve been thinking about the last several days.




Some are just little nothings and some are really important.

Why You Should Interact With Emails

A tip about emails and newsletters you receive from anyone, not just me. You have to open them and click on them regularly. Most people don’t realize email processing programs (such as gmail and all the rest) are moving toward AI “management” of your email. One thing I read said that they are testing out the idea of deciding “when” you will want to see certain types of emails rather than delivering them in real time. Super. I can see all kinds of ways this will work out really well. (/sarcasm)

But if you don’t open and click on emails from a particular company or blogger, your email system will start to devalue them. Then the system as a whole starts to mark them as less valuable. Then they end up in your promotions folder or even spam. It’s the next way Big Tech is going to try to control what you see. They already do it with smartfeeds in Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, and the like. It’s starting in your email to varying degrees.

So the tl;dr version – click on a link every time you get an email from me. Click through to my site to tell the email provider you want to keep getting my emails.




Generation X Retirement Planning

One of my goals for this year was my Gen X Retirement Planning site. I have massive amounts of research for it and I constantly tried to get to it. Now I know why I never did. With the widespread changes to online search and online advertising (here and here), my site would have gone nowhere. It’s one of those times I feel like God’s restraining hand was on the situation and He spared me a lot of frustration and disappointment. I can still use all the research and info here in financial posts (and have just started to do so) so it isn’t wasted. But I’m so glad I never made much progress there. There was a reason.

Free Printables

If there are any free printables you want on my site that are in posts (not the shop), please take a few minutes and go into the posts and save a copy to your hard drive. I am thinking about moving all of my free products to my shop and I want to save you the hassle of having to go through the checkout process. I am also going to remove many of the free ones so they will only be available through purchase in my shop. Again, I want you to be able to get them now since you are a loyal reader.

No Sunshine and Other Miscellaneous

In the past seven days, we’ve had approximately 18 minutes of sunshine. Yes, you read that right. In 7 days, 18 minutes total. I like cloudy weather, but this morning I could tell it was getting to me. I think it will be time to get out the special lamp tomorrow morning. Thankfully we’ve had snow on the ground for most of that so it is brighter outside. I love the glow of snow at night especially so that’s been welcome.

I’m seriously thinking about moving my newsletter to Sunday. I was going to try it this past

Sunday, but then I ended up making our Thanksgiving meal that day. (Long story) And then Caroline was sick and David had stuff to do and it just all went out the window. But I was thinking about moving it to Sunday so people can either enjoy it on Sunday or it will be waiting for them Monday morning when they get back online if they turn off their technology on Sunday.

Politics and Culture

After David and I completed the gorgeous redo of my cultural commentary site, I fully realized how much Google and social media are never going to allow that site to take off. I haven’t posted on it in almost a month. Not because there isn’t anything to say because there is a lot. But because it seems like a waste of time to continue adding to a site that won’t be seen. I just received the domain renewal and it feels like throwing money away.

I went back and looked at the Reader Survey for 2019 for this site and was struck again by how many people liked it when we discussed things happening in our culture during the Kavanaugh hearings and such. At the same time, I lost over a hundred subscribers very quickly so not everyone likes discussing the truth. I absolutely hate that things have become so toxic in our country (and other parts of the world such as the U.K. with Brexit) that even trying to have helpful discussions is seen as divisive.

And yet I believe that if those of us who are sane and able to have conversations about facts and truth don’t have those conversations in a public manner then we are letting the nutjobs win.

We’re allowing ourselves to be shut down by people who have nothing to offer other than rage and projection.




I have a post that’s been written in my head for months about why I don’t celebrate the record high women participation rate in the workplace that Republicans and Conservatives like to rattle off when they discuss the accomplishments under President Trump. I’m a Conservative through and through, but I don’t celebrate this number and I think it would be interesting to discuss why in the context of faith, money, and parenting. But discussing women in the workplace, feminism, and the like? Some readers here will love it and we’ll have a great conversation. Others will hate that I mentioned anything to do with controversial topics.

People Who Compartmentalize Their Lives

Part of the problem for me is I don’t understand how people compartmentalize their lives. For example, there are more and more Christian homeschool bloggers who write from a purely secular viewpoint in order to attract more readers. Well, I understand it from the practical standpoint of wanting a bigger audience. But I’ve tried going that route and I can’t do it. I cannot separate my faith from my parenting, my homeschooling, my homemaking, my money, or any other subject in my website menu bar. As a follower of Christ, how do I cut off something that is in me? How do I discuss anything without taking into account the Holy Spirit who indwells me? I can’t.

In fact, it’s not just that I can’t. It’s that I would feel dishonest to not tell the full story of my life. How do I take the blessings and challenges that God has allowed in my life and then ignore Him by pretending He has no impact on it all when writing about my experiences? I can’t.

So it’s weird for me that people think it’s fine or even admirable to advocate for gifted kids or homeschooling or Christian faith or marriage or whatever but to advocate for or against political or cultural movements that will have a PROFOUND impact on my child, my grandchildren (God willing), my freedom to practice my faith, my freedom to homeschool, my freedom to do business as I choose, my very freedom of speech, etc. is somehow seen as crossing the line. People think it’s mean or wrong.

I don’t get that.

Whether we like it our not, we live in a politicized culture right now. We’re in the midst of something on the same scale as the American Revolution or the Civil War. To think that people going through those historic times never discussed the various points of view or got into arguments over aspects of it is ludicrous. We know they did. We know that family members literally took up arms against each other. The Civil War ripped families apart. But to take a stand today against blatant evil or the undermining of our constitution is seen as uncivil or hateful.

Why do we think we have the luxury or even the responsibility to stay silent? Don’t we look back with gratitude on the men and women who risked everything in order to give us the freedom we have today? If we stay silent so as not to offend people, we’re not living up to the example given to us by those who went before. We’re giving in to the bullies and the weak who are unable or unwilling to defend the freedoms they enjoy and take for granted. We’re allowing the immature and selfish who would gladly destroy our heritage make us cower in silence.

It’s disgusting that we allow ourselves to be censored in this way.

So what does this all mean?

Setting Up Political and Cultural Forum Area

It means this. I’ve decided that this website has my name on it and it’s going to contain whatever I want it to contain. I’ve tried over and over again to appease the people who want no controversial topics just like I tried to appease the highly partisan secular gifted/2e community by not talking about my faith.

I can’t do it. And I won’t do it.

I am going to move my cultural commentary site to a part of the forum. It will NOT be in the main part of my site. It will be at the bottom of the forum page so if you want to use it, you’ll be able to easily find it. If you want to pretend like nothing is going on, you don’t have to scroll down to look at it. I don’t want my main blog overrun with political posts either. I want to keep it focused on peace, understanding, joy, beauty, and faith. But for those who indicated in the reader survey that they really like the discussions about cultural issues, this will be happy news for you. You can find it right here every day.

I’m in the process of building the new area. I cannot import the posts from the other site so I have to copy and paste them. I’m going to unfortunately lose all the comments. If you commented over there and want to copy your comment over here, that’s great. Otherwise they will just be lost.

I thought about putting the new forum behind a password, but I decided I’m not treating people like snowflakes and babies. That’s half the problem with this country. If someone is triggered by what I put in this new forum, they probably need to read it without being hindered by a password.

So that’s where we are. I started out the year with three websites and I’ll be back to one by the end of the year.

Onward!

    
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  1. Marilyn

    December 4, 2019 at 8:33 pm

    Hi Sallie, Hope Caroline is feeling better. We had our first snow the other day, only a dusting. I know the frustration of losing web sites. I no longer receive so many of my former blog e-mails. Word press unsuscribed a lot. When I try to resubscribe they tell me you have oped out. I do not even bother anymore.
    Marilyn

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 4, 2019 at 10:42 pm

      Hi Marilyn,

      Caroline is feeling better. Thank you! She was able to resume her outside activities today so she was happy about that.

      If you ever have a problem with subscribing to my site, be sure to tell me in a comment. I try to keep everything running smoothly here, but as we always say around our home – technology is great except for when it isn’t. LOL!

      Good to hear from you!
      Sallie

      Reply
  2. Amanda

    December 5, 2019 at 7:35 am

    I completely understand the desire to try to please people, but it can’t be done! You have so many wonderful insights and I really appreciate your candor. God has created you just the way you should be and to deny any part of that is folly. 🙂 I am thankful that you are continuing on and even that you will be combining your sites. Thank you for all you do!

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 5, 2019 at 12:28 pm

      Thank you, Amanda, for your encouraging words. I’ve enjoyed getting to know you via your comments.

      I appreciate you!
      Sallie

      Reply
  3. Peggy

    December 5, 2019 at 10:59 am

    Hi Sallie!

    My former job partly involved figuring out ways that artificial intelligence could be of assistance. I learned that the most important feature of an AI assistant, from the user’s standpoint, was the ability to Turn It Off. The AI will often guess incorrectly about what the user is trying to do, and getting the wrong help in the middle of a complex task is much worse than getting no help at all. Using AI to filter email and God knows what else is not going to end well, I agree. Its purpose will be to serve the creators of the AI, more than to serve the actual users.

    I think it’s a good idea to re-integrate your sites. What I like about Finding the Truth in the Noise and your cultural posts is that they are places where women can rationally discuss these issues, including from a Christian perspective. Which is something that I don’t see a lot of, either on the web or in real life.

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 5, 2019 at 12:33 pm

      Hi Peggy,

      This is such a fascinating and true statement you made:

      “getting the wrong help in the middle of a complex task is much worse than getting no help at all.”

      Unfortunately, Big Tech doesn’t give us the opportunity to Turn It Off. If they did that, they would lose control. And, above all else, they want to be in control of everything that we see, hear, and believe as much as possible.

      Thanks for your support with the decision to combine things. I truly do hope the conversations will be helpful for those who choose to participate.

      Sallie

      Reply
  4. Cheryl

    December 5, 2019 at 8:00 pm

    I hope you find the time to write out that post you have written in your head, Sallie. I’d be interested in reading your thoughts on this topic.

    Cheryl

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 9, 2019 at 8:54 am

      Hi Cheryl,

      I think I will write that post. It will probably be after Christmas unless I get inspired and have a big block of time.

      Thank you for the encouragement!
      Sallie

      Reply
  5. Kelly

    December 5, 2019 at 10:24 pm

    I certainly understand the changes you will be making. I always enjoy your site and have for many years. You are genuine and I so appreciate that about you. As long as you write, I will read. Always.

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 9, 2019 at 8:57 am

      Hi Kelly,

      Thank you. I truly appreciate your kind words and you.

      Sallie

      Reply
  6. Ticia

    December 12, 2019 at 3:30 pm

    Only 18 minutes of sunshine would drive me nuts.

    I tried to separate out my religious content, thinking I would magically be able to manage two blogs. It did not work, so I folded it back into my site fairly quickly.

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    • Sallie Borrink

      December 14, 2019 at 1:29 pm

      Hi Ticia,

      There was a stretch when a lot of bloggers tried to do two blogs in order to separate out content that didn’t “go” with their other content. I can’t think of any (?) off the opt of my head who are still doing so on any kind of meaningful scale. It’s just way too much work unless you can hire people to help you.

      I’d rather have someone be upfront about the fact that she holds {inset point of view} belief system than hide it. Even if you are hiding it from your readers, it’s still informing what you do on some level. Why not just be honest about it?

      But I’m someone who cannot compartmentalize my life at all so I don’t relate to that way of thinking. It’s truly foreign to me.

      Sallie

      Reply
      • Ticia

        December 14, 2019 at 11:21 pm

        That’s what I discovered too, I couldn’t compartmentalize, it just didn’t work. I came up with the genius idea because of the whole “niche down” thing, so I was going to have a homeschool blog and a Bible blog…. Yeah, that was a horrible idea.

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