I haven’t written a personal life type post in a while so I decided today was the day.
I suppose the first thing everyone wants to know is about the baby and pregnancy. I started my thirteenth week on Tuesday and I think (knocks loudly and heartily on wood) my morning sickness may be going away. I hesitate to write this for fear I shall jinx myself into six more months of it, but since I don’t believe in jinxes I shall write it anyway!
It seems as though weeks six through ten were the worst and I’ve been very, very slowly improving with just a few major setbacks here and there. (Like the other day when my poor mom had to listen to my sobbing on the phone that it was never going to get better and that I’m sick of being sick.) But I am cooking, working, blogging, cleaning, reading, and stuff more each day. Sunday I made it to church for the first time since mid-January and we even went out to eat at Olive Garden after church which was the first time we’ve been out to eat since our anniversary.
On the other hand, my birthday was Tuesday and David said he would take me anywhere I wanted to go. I just didn’t have the energy or the stomach to do so, so instead we got Chinese take-out. It is a sad day when your husband has offered TWICE to take you to The Melting Pot for a special event and you’ve turned him down flat both times. Very sad!
But may I just say that I never knew how good Taco Bell could taste until I had spent four weeks living on pretzels, ginger ale, bagels, oatmeal, cottage cheese, yogurt, grapes, gingersnaps, and other similar bland stuff. Eating a chalupa and nachos with a Dr. Pepper was heavenly, truth be told!
The most exciting thing to happen around here in the past week was David rescuing a male downy woodpecker from strangulation! We have this contraption on one of our bird feeding pole system things that has four weighted fishwires that hang down. (The purpose of the contraption is to keep sparrows off the birdfeeders and it works incredibly well.) Unfortunately, this little woodpecker accidentally flew into one of the wires and got it tangled around neck. Providentially, David was looking outside when it happened or…. Well, we won’t go there.
David ran downstairs, out the back door, and was able to grab the little guy with his gloved hands. (The bird was flying and squawking frantically as David approached.) David held him gently and was able to get the wire untangled and the bird flew off unharmed (but probably emotionally scarred for life!). We would have felt just terrible if we hadn’t seen it happen and had looked out later to see that poor little woodpecker hanging there, strangled to death. I’m so thankful that didn’t happen! And David got the thrill of holding a downy woodpecker, one of his favorite birds. So all’s well that ends well.
On the topic of birds, the goldfinches have started turning again. One male in particular is quite bright so it won’t be too long before the rest of them are all bright yellow again. I cannot recommend highly enough getting a goldfinch feeder. They are such fun little birds and I defy anyone to listen to them twittering, squeaking and chirping and not smile! It is simply not possible! They have the cutest little sounds! Goldfinches are all over and they are very easy to attract. Whenever we’ve had a feeder, we’ve always had them find it within 36 hours. Buy one of the feeders where the birds hang upside down to eat the thistle seed. They love thistle seed and it is so funny to watch them eat upside down!
On the topic of birds, lately our backyard has resembled a high flying singles bar. I’m not kidding! The mating dances, mating flights, passionate songs, and all manner of males trying to interest the females have been everywhere. One lucky female sparrow had four males all going at her at the same time with their courting rituals in one of our lilac bushes. I don’t know what kind of perfume she was wearing, but it certainly was working!
I’ve been thinking about what I want and need to get done in the next six months before life as I currently know it ends. Aside from some professional things, there are really only two items I consider critical: scrapbooking and reading. I know that if I don’t finish up the scrapbooking projects I have started before this baby comes, it is all over. So currently our dining room is not being used for dining because it has been completely taken over with all my scrapbooking stuff. The only way I can get it done is to leave it out all the time. And when I’ve had a few good hours here and there, I have been making progress. I’ve also jumped into the large pile of books next to my office glider. It is the same deal with these books. I know if I don’t push through them, they will still be mocking me in another year or two. So with a baby delivery deadline on my mind, I’ve found myself energized (in spirit if not completely in body) and have been reading like a madwoman the past week or so.
Happy Thursday to all!
Bonnie
A quick note about reading: I find that while nursing and rocking the babe to sleep you really do have time to read. You’ll get the hang of nursing with no hands (pretty easy with a boppy)and this is a great time to bond and read at the same time! By the way, I just found out I’m pregnant with my fourth! I have been *so* tired, like never before, and have thought of you as I sit on my couch when there are a million other things I should be doing!
God Bless your family!
Carrie
I love to watch the birds at the feeder and thank God for his creation.
Glad you are feeling a bit better!
HolyMama!
my 2 yr old LOVES birds lately. do you think we could attract goldfinches in west texas? they sound lovely!
Susanna Berry
I know it must have its problems, but it is so great that you and David have a business you run yourselves. *sighs*……in the middle of a ‘what do we do with our jobs’ phase at the moment. On the bird front, I keep meaning to get a feeder, but we do see some lovely ones in our rather small garden!
Sallie
Bonnie – Thanks for the suggestion. I keep hearing about the boppy. I will have to register for one.
HolyMama! – Here is a link about goldfinches in Texas. It looks like you just missed them for this year! http://www.passporttotexas.com/birds/feb01.html
Susanna – Yes, most of the time we really like our business. Sometimes we wonder, but not very often. 🙂
Elizabeth B
I also got a lot of reading done while nursing, especially with my first.
I used a boppy with my first, then “my brest friend” with my second. It’s much better, but the same concept. It makes it even easier to read or work on the computer while nursing. However, I don’t think you could scrapbook with it!
crickl's nest
So glad you are feeling better! I craved Taco Bell tostados with my second pregnancey. I could only eat them if I didn’t go to get them and smell it. I had to just take it out of the bag and eat it quickly to get it down….the smelling of food made my stomach turn when I was morning sick. Pregnancy is a really funky time with all the weird feelings, emotions, physical side effects and I had crazy dreams too! Are you having crazy cravings?
I’m loving the bird talk! Here in Phoenix, the birds from up north winter and are so fun to watch and listen to. We have a funny Mockingbird who pesters cats and sings his heart out in our backyard…..very cute!
God bless your tummy!
christie
Cheri
No goldfinches here, 🙁 but we did go to the park and looked at the Love Birds yesterday. I was rather scandalized by some of the male behavior I saw. 😉 Normally they are so cute billing and cooing, but it was definately more intense this time.
Sallie, do you normally like coffee? I do, and it was the big milestone of early pregnancy when I could tolerate and enjoy my (decaf) coffee again. I know just what you mean about being grateful for flavors. Seems like it was around 12 weeks for me too.
Did you get a rain check on The Melting Pot? I sure hope so. Romantic restaurants are another thing that changes dramatically when the little one comes along. If you have help near by it’s not too bad, but it definately isn’t as simple any more.
Sallie
Christie – The only weird craving I’ve had so far was around maybe eight or nine weeks. I woke up at 2:30 a.m. and all I could think about was mashed potatoes and gravy from KFC! David woke up and I told him, but there was nothing he could do because they were obviously closed. (Lucky break for him!) But we did have KFC the next day for lunch!
Cheri – I normally LOVE coffee. For several weeks I could barely stand the smell of it and I forced myself to drink a half a mug a couple times a day just so I wouldn’t go through caffiene withdrawal on top of everything else. It is a little better now, but I seem to enjoy it more later in the day rather than in the morning which is a complete switch! Re: The Melting Pot… I do want to go, but I want to go when I can really enjoy it. So far I haven’t felt inclined at all to go, but I’m sure if I do at some point David will be happy to take me. 🙂