It has been a long time since I’ve written about simplicity, even though it is a topic near and dear to my heart. This morning I was reading the latest installment on MrsCatherine’s site called What Does Your Living Room Say About You?
This is a good summary of what she is saying:
How our homes look is a result of our discipline or the lack of. Now I’m not talking about have the pin perfect neat home…but enough order to create a place of peace for you and your family. I can not stress enough to you all about decluttering your homes and the benefits to being free from all the clutter.
When you walk into your living room…what does it say to you? I hope and pray my living room says, “Come on it, relax and stay awhile for a visit.” That the surroundings are peaceful and comfortable to all who enter in.
Getting Rid of Clutter
I believe getting rid of the clutter in my home is a key part of living peacefully. We do not have a large house (1250 square feet on two floors with an unfinished basement of 600ish square feet). We have a one-stall detached garage and an 8×8 shed in our backyard. So we are not abounding in space compared to many Americans. We are both home all day and operate a business out of our home. Now we have a baby coming.
We have had to maximize the use of our space and carefully consider how we use every square foot. For the most part, maximizing the use of space has NOT meant buying more storage containers to pile up more stuff in the basement. It has meant many trips to Goodwill, selling things on ebay, etc. It has meant moving stuff out of the house.
Sometimes it has been challenging. There have been things I would have liked to have kept, but there simply isn’t room. And I value peace and sanity more than I value hanging on to boxes of books and other stuff. So part of living peacefully has been moving the stuff out before it can become clutter – physically, mentally and emotionally.
Everything In Its Place
Another key way we control clutter in our home is that everything has a place and, almost without fail, everything is in its place before we go to bed. The kitchen is cleaned up, anything that might have been out in the living room is put back, clothes are picked up in our bedroom, the bathroom has no clutter laying about it, etc.
Because we have taken the time to declutter and determine where things go, it takes us very little time to do a quick sweep through the house before bedtime and make sure everything is where it needs to be. Then we have the joy and peace of getting up to a neat house.
Clutter is somewhat subjective. I am sure some people will be shocked to think that we would actually get rid of books! Some people find knicknacks to be clutter while others think that they add a homey touch. Only you can decide what is clutter in your home and what isn’t. But the things in your home should add value and peace to your day, not drain you physically, mentally and emotionally.
Decluttering One Day at a Time
If clutter has taken over your home, it will not all disappear in one day. It has worked its way in over months and years and it will take more than thirty minutes to get rid of it. It takes time to go through all the “stuff” and move it out. (I think the most challenging part is to get past the emotional aspects of the stuff.) But it can be done fifteen minutes at a time, one day at a time, one week at a time. Once you get to the point where you have control over it rather than it controlling you, it is then just a matter of daily/weekly maintenance which is far easier than the initial tackling of the piles and boxes.